Together we can plan

An adventurous destination wedding

celebrating you and your love story

Hi I'm Abigail

I am a perpetual enthusiast, a reliable friend, a supportive planner and a crisis manager.

Do you need a sounding board or a calming influence? Giving gentle but honest opinions, I will always have your best interests and enjoyment at heart.

I am logical and clear headed, but incredibly sentimental. I make friends easily and I hate to let people down.

And on top of all that, I’m a great dinner and dancing companion!

Whimsical wonderland weddings

Dive on in!

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    Rather Be

    Am I your kind of person?

    Learn a bit more about me and find out!

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    How I can help

    Your wedding is more than just a party. You want it to be exciting and full of memories.

    Whether you want me along for the whole ride, or just want some sound advice, let’s make it happen!

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    my thoughts

    Head over to my journal and read my ramblings.

    You’ll find wedding inspiration - real and styled, wedding traditions - why I like or dislike them, FAQs, tips for planning and executing your event, travel tips and more.

  • getting in touch

    Not sure where to start or what to do next? Why don’t we have a conversation and go from there.

J+O

“Wedding problem solver of dreams”

A+R

“ We booked Abigail for on-the-day management of our dry hire wedding, but what we got was so much more”

O+J

“Abigail's help with both planning and on-the-day execution were utterly invaluable.”